Confidance talk

Today i watched Gundurao sir's(G) show in tv (who is quite famous in harate).He spoke about the confidence in self .Liked some of his words which i would like to share with ull

Q : I have low confidence what can i do?

G: Im happy u said u have low confidence than "NO" confidence .That shows that u already own confidence but that is only less than required which u can easily fill.Never think of phrases like "I cant " ," Probably im not fit" ," what if i fail"....these are the lies which u are telling to yourself.

Every person has a BAG on his back.

B - blessings all are given this by god.

A - attitude --- this decides on a persons utilization of his blessings ...+ve -> confidence + success-ve --> will loose the blessings also

G -->goals majorly depends on your attitide path.

MYOPINION : The main reason for a person to loose his confidence is the failure in his plan.We consider 1 failure more seriously than many achievements.We fear to be confident in stating because we are worried what if the plan goes wrong ?hw to face the people? To avoid embracement we start using maybe,probably etc.Inturn we are feeding ourself with negativism.

Q: I always wanted to achieve in my life but my poverty has always ended me nt getting what i want this has made me loose confidence in myself , myhusband, my children and almost everyone.

G: Excuses are based on the word LIAR

L - i dnt have Luck

I- i cldnt achieve because i dont have Intelligence

A - Im aged so i cnt achieve

R - I dnt have resourses to work towards my goals.

As a mother it is your responsibility to have confidence in your children.As your actions effect your progenies confidence and growth.

MYOPINION : Life is based on confidence on self and on others .I feel the lady wouldnt have called to the show if she had lost confidence totally.It shows even now she is finding paths to solve her problems.If her statement of loosing confidence in everyone was true then she wouldn't have been normal.Its totally impossible to have a life with (Zero)0 confidence.

Money plays a small role in her case .It is her mindset that has to be changed.After seeing this show my use of probably has reduced :D